Patience
Perhaps other than
practicing a relative form of truth, our prevailing business culture is marked
by a lack of patience. This microwave
mentality permeates many aspects of our expectations regarding product functions,
learning, sales, marketing, information availability, relationships, and the
services we purchase. Unfortunately, it
also marks a number of people in our culture who seem ready to complain or
explode at the slightest provocation.
Lest I be too quick to
make a judgmental statement, we must all be careful to not condemn others so
quickly. We rarely know what mental or
physical exasperations others have experienced before they lose their
cool. I once heard a respected
physiologist say he had observed normally calm, rational people do the most
bizarre and extreme things under the stress of heavy mental or physical
pressure. This does not excuse explosive
behavior, but it does help us understand that at times pressure can cause
someone to act far outside the limits of acceptable behavior.
However, in this context
I am referring to two different aspects of patience. The first is the patience required to allow a
maturing or learning experience take place in another individual. The second is the patience required to finish
a process. Specifically, this is the
patience required to allow for all the components to come together for a
quality project or product to be produced.
For issues regarding a
lack of patience with people, we may have to consider the possibility that the
primary issue lies within the person who displays the lack of patience. It may be necessary for those individuals to
seriously consider their own lack of humility.
Many “Type A” personalities have long forgotten what it was like to be
the new or inexperienced associate. These people are so convinced that their decision-making
abilities and experience are so superior that patience has be learned. These learning experiences can be painful for
both the impatient individual and the object of their irritation.
This assumption of
invincibility can easily lead to outbursts of anger and judgmental decisions
about inexperienced or slow people. So
as not to pass judgment on strictly type A’s, it must be acknowledged that we
can all loose our patience if personally impeded in achieving our professional
goals.
To combat this tendency,
those of us that fit into the “experienced category” must learn to walk a mile
in the other’s shoes and be objective about performance expectations. Of course, continuous communication is necessary
to inform newcomers about production benchmarks.
Patience also has a
strong element of gentleness and truthfulness about it. Just as it is unnecessary to explode at a
lack of performance, it is also unprofessional to allow a lack of performance
to go on without the proper instruction or retraining.
Project completion is
also an area that requires professional and personal patience. As business managers, we should be practicing
objective evaluations about the capital projects recommended to our
employers. Return on investment
evaluations in conjunction with the long-term strategies and goals of the
company must be used to make these decisions.
As with many new
initiatives, the initial sailing is not always smooth and there is some level
of discouragement midway through the project.
To allow temporary setbacks and our emotions to cause the cancellation
of worthwhile projects is a strong sign that patience is lacking. Frustrated decision making creates bad
morale, lost opportunities and at the very least, vacillation that leads to
delays in completion.
To combat these
potential cuts and run temptations, have a strong vision of the success of the
new business undertaking. Foreseeing
the rewards through the construction phase will create patience and
perseverance. Have confidence in
your initial project analysis and take the setbacks as part of the project’s
steps to completion.
Application:
Has your career been
marked by impatience that created barriers to the success of others and
yourself? Work diligently to walk a mile
in another’s shoes and visualize the successful outcome of your goals to combat
your lack of patience.
Author:
Gary D. Seale - Principal
Trucon Communications and Consulting
512-529-7045 www.truconbd.com